Founding members only pricing
Limited time pricing for founding period.
£29
per month for life, cancel anytime.
Or save with £290/year — two months free
  • Monthly Deep Dive Masterclass
  • Live Relationship Labs
  • Micro Lessons Library (5–8 min)
  • Community space + peer support
  • Downloadable worksheets
  • 10–15% off all courses
Start Your DQ Practice
Standard pricing: £35–45/mo after founding period

The DQ Life

Less Stress, More You

Stress travels. So does calm. The DQ Life builds your DQ – your capacity to stay calm, clear and more yourself under relational pressure. Content, community, and live coaching, all in one place.

How it works

Three steps to begin 

01
Take the quiz

Your Stress Contagion Profile shows how stress moves through your relationships – and is your first step towards changing it.

Take the quiz
02
Download the app

Your home base. Start the free ten-day course, Stop Catching Stress, and begin building your DQ practice at your own pace.

Download
03
Join the DQ Lifers

When you’re ready to go deeper into your DQ practice – with live sessions, group coaching and a community of people doing the same work. 

Get started
Become a DQ Lifer

DQ Lifers are people committed to living with less stress and more themselves – doing the work of staying distinct, together. Welcome to the community.

Membership

Choose your level

Start free. Go deeper when it’s right for you.

Start
Understand the stress you're catching
Free
No card required
Stop Catching Stress - ten-day course
Stress Contagion Profile
Full library
Community space
Live sessions
Download the app
Explore
Build your DQ at your own pace
£14
/mo
or £154/year
Everything in Start
Full DQ Life video library
Quizzes, reflection, prompts, micro-actions
Live sessions
Community space
Choose plan
Founding member pricing
Thrive
The Full DQ Life
£29
/mo for life
or £290/year - standard pricing £35-45/mo
Everything in Explore
Monthly deep dive masterclass
Live group coaching with Dr KK
Ask Dr KK - AI Search
Monthly deep dive masterclass
Community space and peer support
Choose plan

What's included

Everything you need to practise DQ

Go as light or as deep as you want. Every resource is designed to be sustainable and immediately useful in real life.

Monthly Masterclass

A structured deep-dive into the month’s theme – building your DQ and giving you the learning anchor for your whole practice cycle.

Live Group Coaching

Real dilemmas from members, examined through the DQ lens. Applied, immediate, and often the moment things click.

Micro Lessons Library

A searchable bank of 5–8 minute lessons for the commute, the lunch break, or the five minutes before a hard conversation. Each one builds a specific DQ capacity.

Ask Dr KK

An AI search tool trained on DQ content – so you can get a grounded answer without trawling through everything.

Community Space

Peer support and practical conversation with other DQ Lifers doing the same work. Harder to find than it sounds. 

Resources & Worksheets

Downloadable and built for immediate use – not filing away and forgetting.

FAQ

Is this therapy? 

No. The DQ Life is an educational and practice community. It supports learning and peer practice; it is not a substitute for individual therapy or clinical support.

How long will this take? 

The monthly rhythm is designed to be sustainable. Core content can be covered in under two hours a month, with short weekly prompts if you want them.

What is Bowen Systems Theory?

A framework for understanding how relationships work – specifically how anxiety and stress move between people in families, workplaces, and other systems. The DQ Life makes it practical and accessible, giving you real skills to stay more yourself under pressure.

Can organisations join? 

Yes – corporate pathways and group rates are available. Contact us to discuss.